Tuesday, March 30, 2010

eternal things

With Easter around the corner, we have the perfect opportunity to have open conversations about the love of Christ and his work on the cross on our behalf. I am reminded of a story about my mother and her salvation. I was 24 when my mom died (she was only 60!) but she got sick when I was only 16 and never in good health after that; Now that I have a child 20 and a child 15 (and one 13), I see how young that really was to go through something like that...... for her and for me.....My mother-in-law saw my motherʼs sickness is a more realistic way than I did (I guess I didnʼt really think she would actually die), and really encouraged me to ask her if she believed that Jesus died on a cross for her sins. She did this so that I would have the assurance of my momʼs salvation or time to share if mom had not accepted Jesus as savior. I remember being so scared of doing that. It was like I wanted to know for sure but didnʼt want to offend her with the question. Have you ever felt that way? Especially with a loved one who has always had the answers, been the one in charge, in control, teaching me things, not the other way around. Well, I finally got my nerve up and I remember it pretty clearly.... I was on the edge of her king sized bed (where she spent alot of time) and finally got the nerve to ask the question of the age.... I was nervous and took a deep breath, hoping not to offend her...... “I know

you know all of the bible stories from church and all, but do you believe Christ died for your sins; have you made a personal decision to accept him as your savior? Okay, there I said it, now holding my breath for the answer..... which was yes--but sounding offended that I had to ask the question. BUT even though it may have offended her, I AM SO GLAD I ASKED....I cannot imagine the last 25 years if I had to wonder where she is now.... Was it uncomfortable? yes indeed.... Would I do it again.... yes indeed! If you are uncertain of your parentʼs eternal state, I encourage you, as my wise mother-in-law encouraged me, ask and find out. Ask yourself the question first... go to Godʼs word which is very clear about the way, the truth and the life. Donʼt have the regret of wondering or not sharing with them the good news even if it is uncomfortable. Why is it we can talk more easily about bodily functions and television shows than the most important decision anyone can make.

It is as if we donʼt think that they (and we) are going to die. Not to be doom and gloom, but this is certain.... It is not IF but WHEN... for all of us ....... donʼt delay.... one uncomfortable conversation could give you peace for years to come and eternity with Jesus for them... and then if they donʼt know the way, there is time to share with the good news of Christ. If you yourself have questions, please email me and I would love

to share more with you.

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